When you have found someone you like on The System’s chat lines, then it will be time to actually go out for a date. There are plenty of gay friendly bars and restaurants in Boston that you will be able to enjoy together. The Alley is the biggest bear bar in all of New England, and it caters to the large furry men that are known as bears and the other guys who love them. Come on a Sunday night and impress your date with your karaoke skills!

If you want to get in touch with your trans side, then head over to Jacque’s cabaret, a drag bar that features the area’s top drag performers. It definitely has that drag queen charm of being kind of divey, but filled with people who truly appreciate the fabulosity of whatever queen is performing on that very evening. In fact, no matter what evening of the week, there is probably an LGBT themed event going on in Boston, whether it is a fundraiser, a drag show or a party specifically for queers.

One particularly fun thing to do is look up whenever the quirky group Welcoming Committee is hosting their monthly takeover. They go to a normally straight bar, and take it over, turning it into a queer space for the evening, and they are known for some seriously fun parties. You’ll have to pay attention because the name of the next venue is only announced the day before the next event, so grab your date by the hand and start running!

Boston is the kind of place where you can feel good about being out and proud. Going on a date in a place like Boston is really fun no matter what time of year. Of course the summer is fun because there are gay beach parties and gay boat parties, but winter can be nice too, with beautiful snowfall and a chance to feign coldness to get close to your sweetie.

To find a queer match in Boston all you have to do is call our Boston gay chat line (617) 861-6389. There is already someone on the other end of the line who wants to talk to you. You are in control because you get to decide whether you like them or not before you ask them out on a date. The System keeps you in the dating and hook up drivers seat!